3 skills that will allow you to successfully communicate with others

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Do you often have a feeling that every time you want to talk to someone you care about, such as your boss, lover, family, or friends, etc., feel the embarrassing scene of “no one wants to hear you”? Or do you have important information to let everyone know, but no one is listening?

Have you ever thought about the reason for this result?

Have you used the following 3 skills that will allow you to successfully communicate with others?

Just when you start to say the first sentence, you will be able to focus on listening to you and be willing to continue talking with you. . .

3 ways to improve how others can listen to you

#Method 1 = You have to simply say something about someone’s cares

When you want to get someone’s attention, you…


2 ways to overcome procrastination

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Procrastination refers to the failure of self-regulation, and the behavior of delaying the things planned to be done even when the consequences can be expected to be harmful.

Procrastination is a common phenomenon.

A survey shows that about 75% of college students think they procrastinate sometimes, and 50% think they procrastinate all the time.

Severe procrastination will have a negative impact on the individual’s physical and mental health, such as strong feelings of self-blame, guilt, constant self-denial, depreciation, and mental illnesses such as anxiety and depression.

There are two reasons for the delay:

#First Reason=About the difficulty of the “start” action. No matter if you are facing…


Do you have the Correct Concept and Attitude to become a rich person?

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Many people have worked for 20 or 30 years and continue to work hard, because their motivation is to save enough money to live the retirement life they want.

However, if you ask yourself, will the money saved in 30 years of work income allow you to live a prosperous retirement for several years?

Is it 10 years, 20 years, or 30 years? And it must be the ideal retirement life you plan now and want it.

Have you ever thought that the pension you are preparing now is likely to lead you to an out-of-control and poor retirement life! Unfortunately, this result is probably due to the following series of “misconceptions”.

For example, you may have:

~ No concept of financial management‘

~Don’t understand the crisis of inflation.

~ Don’t know how to manage retirement funds.

~ Loss of rational consumption, shopping addiction, becoming a slave to shopping. No saving at all.

~ Did not trust any financial institutions, did not make any investment, and did not look for opportunities to obtain passive income other than work.

~ The most dangerous misconception is that in the 21st century now, you still think that you can retire easily, and easily get enough pension to live the retirement life you want by just getting a job.

Therefore, if you have the above misconceptions, I hope you can detect and have the same ideas as the rich, and live the…


4 Results of Fear of Failure

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How does our fear of failure come from?

When facing external challenges, our brain will have two competing systems, namely:

~1) Seek rewards

If you are seeking rewards, you feel very excited, looking forward to it, and eager to try, to see if you do well and do it right, what kind of feedback will you get, and what kind of reward will you get?

~2) Fear of failure

If you are afraid of failure, you will be afraid that you have done a shameful thing, and you may suffer some losses and punishments.

Simply put, what do you think about your relationship with the world?

Will you adopt a reward-seeking attitude, or a fearful…

S.H. Sherry

I share stories about How to Promote the Relationship between people, and How to Know Yourself and Seek Self Improvement to have a Successful Life!

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